Ben Affleck is feeling good after spending Christmas with his ex-wife

Ben Affleck’s Christmas plans with Jennifer Garner come after he spent Thanksgiving together.

Ben Affleck is entering the new year with a new perspective and a positive attitude – and it’s all thanks to his ex. No, not that ex – we’re talking about Jennifer Garner!

At Christmas, the actor and filmmaker spent quality time with his first ex-wife and their three children: Violet, Fin and Samuel. According to an insiderAfter the festive family celebration, Ben feels “good in his own skin”.

“Now that Ben is back to his old routine, he’s feeling good,” the insider said. “Spending time with Jen Garner and the kids over the holidays helped him feel like all was right in his world again.”

But before anyone jumps to conclusions, this is not the start of a romantic reconciliation between Ben and Jennifer Garner. While the former couple has been frequently spotted together in recent months –including an especially warm reunion on Thanksgiving– Sources clarify that they are simply concerned about maintaining a strong co-parenting relationship.

An insider shared People that Jennifer Garner remains “very happy” with her boyfriend John Miller and that her bond with Ben is all about their children and their friendship. “They’re just friends and it’s all about their kids – that’s all,” the source stressed.

Interestingly, Ben seems to be taking the same mature and amicable approach to his relationship with his other ex, Jennifer Lopez, during their ongoing divorce. Despite their split, sources report that Ben and J.Lo “have every intention of continuing to be involved in each other’s lives, even if they are not romantically involved.”

Although their connection is primarily focused on their children, it speaks volumes about their mutual respect and commitment to a civil atmosphere. In fact, it was reported that Ben even chose a thoughtful Christmas gift for Jennifer Lopez, highlighting the care and consideration he still has for her.

Over the weekend, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez met at the exclusive Soho House in West Hollywood to privately exchange Christmas presents. While details about what J.Lo got her estranged husband remain under wraps, Ben’s gift for Jennifer has been revealed — and it’s incredibly thoughtful.

Accordingly Page sixthe 52-year-old actor was chosen a signed Marlon Brando book for JenniferShe knows how much she admires the legendary actor. The special gift was purchased at Mystery Pier Books, a renowned bookstore on Sunset Boulevard. Store owner Louis Jason said Ben picked up “a few books” from the store before the exchange on Sunday.

“Ben gave Jennifer the book because she’s a fan, and her Super Bowl bodysuit was inspired by Marlon Brando. “The gifts were mostly for each other’s kids,” the insider told the outlet. “But they also exchanged a few little things with each other.” It wasn’t anything excessive, but more of a gesture to celebrate the holidays. Ben and Jennifer remained amicable despite ongoing divorce proceedings.”

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck, often referred to as “Bennifer,” have been in a relationship for over two decades, marked by two engagements and two marriages. Their first romance began in the early 2000s and led to an engagement in 2002, which was later called off in 2004.

After nearly two decades apart, the couple resumed their relationship in 2021, culminating in a wedding in Las Vegas on July 16, 2022. The following month, they celebrated a larger ceremony with family and friends in Georgia.

However, on August 20, 2024 Lopez filed for divorce from Affleck in Los Angeles County Superior Court, citing April 26, 2024 as the date of their separation. This filing coincided with their second wedding anniversary. Lopez, who filed divorce papers herself without legal representation, also filed to have her legal name restored to Jennifer Lynn Lopez.

As they navigate their divorce, both Lopez and Affleck remain focused on their respective careers and personal lives, striving to move forward while maintaining mutual respect and commitment to their family.